I know this sounds a bit harsh, so we can also say, ‘what you focus on the most you will cultivate and grow – until it becomes reality’. The same thing, just sounds nicer.
Do you have a challenging child? Then I know it’s tempting to talk about them to friends, family members (partner, siblings, own parents), colleagues, teachers etc. ‘Sam is so difficult today, he is refusing to go to school again’. ‘Jenny screams all the time and it’s driving me nuts’. ‘Tom keeps irritating his sister – I have had enough of him’. 'Sarah is so difficult to ...