Promoting individuality in twins

It’s so easy with twins to see them as one unit, a pair that stays together and is treated as one.
Right from birth I felt that was encouraged in many ways, as the advice I was given was to feed them at the same time and get them into the same sleep schedule. So, I tried that, but I very quickly had one baby who loved her sleep and was having to be woken for feeds, and another who always wanted to be awake and partying every night and couldn’t go a few hours at night without a feed! My son loved his milk and would guzzle big bottles every 3 ho...